Also, I decided that I hate lunch rush hour or whatever it is called. It is frustrating and chaotic and I really didn't like the people I was working with yesterday. bleh :( Whatever... When I got home I was so stressed out because my shift ended at 3 but the girl that I was working with FORGOT to do her task sheet, she told me about this about a half an hour before I was supposed to be done for the day... which meant I got to stay at work for a whole extra 30 minutes. And then looking at the schedule for this week my manager forgot that I don't want to work Sunday's and he put me down to work for today... so I had to get that all cleared up. Just a little frustrating. I just hate feeling like an incompetent idiot and that was exactly how I felt yesterday.
With my work day aside I actually had a really incredible day though :) Yesterday was Sadies and my date and I went as superheros (the theme being when I grow up) and we looked pretty classy if I do say so myself :) It was the perfect date because we were just friends and so I had someone to dance with during the slow songs but then for all of the fast songs I had all of my best friends there jamming out with me, it was great :) It was interesting though. I was in the middle of three groups that were all right next to each other. There was the Mormon group that I came with, the one I kinda felt like I fit in for... but then again, not at all. The girls that I have Christian Bible study with who were a lot of fun but didn't seem to be having that much fun. And there was my non-LDS friends (which are my absolute best friends) who sometimes can get a little out of hand with the dancing. For example one of my best guy friends stripped down during the song "I'm Sexy and I know it" So I am not sure If I really fit in with them either. Even though all three of these groups I could call my friends and I tried to be with each group equally... I wasn't really sure which group was best for me. It was as if each different group showed a different side of who I am. The LDS group was about watching the best dancers in the group show of and everyone just stand in circle around them not sure of really what to do, which got boring quick but that was me being apart of the bubble that I grew up in. Self-conscious, not wanting to do anything that people would judge me for, Mormon me. The Christian girls who I love were going through the motions but didn't really seem to be enjoying themselves because they didn't have dates. Strictly Christian boys at my school either don't really have standards, have to high of standards, or simple don't exist. In that group I was Christian girl Valerie. The Valerie who is just with my girls because boys are stupid. My Non-LDS friends were kinda going crazy.. and that was crazy Valerie. (Don't get me wrong.. I have never ever ever grinned in my entire life) But that was Valerie who didn't care what my friends thought of me because they were having just as much of a great time just being themselves. Which specific Valerie is actually me? I don't know. Maybe non of them. Maybe all of them combined. Maybe I am still figuring that out.I can't help but feel I am a little awkward though. Sometimes I say stupid things or do stupid things and I don't know why. I think I am just bad at group dating because I am so not used to it. I am way better at single dating with guys who I have an actual interest in. Is that wierd? Then I actually think before I talk and plan my actions out before I do them so I don't end up looking so... blonde. I am sure I am just thinking way to hard about this though.
Overall though I am so incredibly glad that I asked the date that I did and I had a blast. My last Sadies dance of High School and I made it count :)
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